February 09, 2014

Putera Puteri Kartini 2013




I signed myself up to compete in this competition. At first, I had my doubt for joining this because I didn’t think that I was confident enough to step up. Knowing that the location held was in Bekasi as well. I was scared as always. But I thought why I didn’t give it a try. I assumed that I would be a lot happier if I failed trying rather than not trying at all

Audition started. I was a little late because I got lost on my way to the location. It was located in the Kantor Walikota Bekasi. The audition took a start with writing an essay about R.A. Kartini. Then, it continued with the interview. I waited for like 3 hours to audition but it was pretty fun though. I met all new people and somehow I felt so comfortable mingling with new friends. It began with writing an essay about the values of R.A. Kartini that we could implement daily in our lives. Then, it followed with the interview. In the interview part, I had to face with some of the judges and I needed to showcase my talent as well. Nervousness was there and I tried to be as calm as I could possibly be although it was raging inside. The judging went pretty well and was even better than I expected. I was so much of myself and felt so comfortable dealing with a lot of tricky questions. I held it together and answered very thoroughly.

The announcement via twitter came up. I did get picked as the finalist and I was excited. The thing that concerned me the most was how I was going to attend the quarantine section knowing the fact that it was going to be held around in Bekasi. My dorm was in Cikarang and it was going to be really frustrating to go back and forth. But I thought that this was the challenge I was willing to take. I dealt with it.

They called it “workshop” and it took three days to get through. I was taught a lot about “Inner Beauty”, “HIV/AIDS and its guidance to avoid it”, “Organizational Structure of Abang Mpok”, “3R and environment” and other beneficial lectures. I grasped all the knowledge I received and really took it all in. It approximately went week and a half to do all the process before the final night. I met some of the amazing great achievers and they were talented in their own unique ways. Since the workshop, I got really close with Taufan and Adiestian and I paired with the lovely Tiara Devi. I felt so much togetherness and sense of belonging in surroundings of top 40 Finalist and all the mentors such as Bang Theo, Bang Aspira, Bang Cah, Bang Arga, Kak Eva, Bang Rahar, and Bang Imam who voluntarily helped me and the rest of us through the journey and I began to appreciate the value of discipline from these inspirational people. I knew that if I didn’t win, I would not regret a single bit. Because through Putera-Puteri Kartini, I valued the thing called journey. The ups and downs, the hard and the goods, all had to be experienced in order to achieve glory.

The final night arrived. I had to thank my fellow, Aby for lending me the baju koko because I hardly got a chance to buy one since mine was back in my home. We did the run-through and the feelings were mixed. We practiced our question and answer, catwalk, our opening dance and our confidence. Until it came to the announcement of top 20 and I was called first by the MC. I advanced to the question and answer session. I remembered I was with Teh Ana to do the QnA.

- My question was “which one do you prefer? Having a lot of friends but you’re acting fake or less friends but you’re true to yourselves”.
- I answered very straight-forward with “I’d rather go with the second one. Because that means I’m true to myself, I’m true with my conviction. And by being true to myself, I can be a better human being.”

I felt pretty good about myself. But I laid it all down to God. Then, it came the moment which was the announcement of top 10. I was called first again and I was pretty much pleased because I knew that I did excellent. The question landed again on me and it was from Bang Arga.

-The question was like this “How do you feel about the heroic deeds that Kartini has contributed to Indonesia? Was it wasteful or worth-it?”

-A : I think that Kartini’s struggle has been very successful because right now at the moment we could witness a lot of great women leaders in everywhere not only in Indonesia but in the world. Take the example of Megawati, Margaret Thatcher and Sri Mulyani. They have contributed so much for Indonesia and the world.

I called it my defining moment because I never felt so confident answering the question like that. I prayed so hard and hopefully the result could be the best decision they made. I wanted to win but I think winning wasn’t always my goal. I embraced all of it, good and bad. So here came the result. I was called out as the first runner up along with Siska Indah to receive the trophy. Miss Indonesia “Very Fresh”, Marsha Pical handed me the trophy and gave me a little smooch that made the audiences went “BOO”. It was a total gimmick. My hands were shaken and got shivered all over my body. I couldn’t believe it. It paid off. Finally, these hard works and sweats I had been putting were satisfying.

Putera – Puteri Kartini               : Alwan Fadhal & Nabilla Arswendita
1st Runner Up                           : Daniel Samuel & Siska Indah Pratiwi
2nd Runner Up                          : Andrew Bantong & Dita Puspita
The Best Talent                        : Riantama S. & Devi Gheisyah
The Most Photogenic                : Ryan Goutama & Aisyah
The Most Favorite                    : Sutan Chaniago & Mellie Leonita

 With the lovely Tiara Devi, my patient partner during the whole competition.

 With Siska Indah crowned as the 1st runner up with the help of Marsha Pical. Miss Very Fresh from Miss Indonesia 2013